Revenge for Success - #DennySays
- Lance Denny
- Jun 29, 2020
- 2 min read
Updated: Jun 30, 2020
Sounds Weird. Right?
But psychologically, it's 100% true method to reach your success soon.
Frank Sinatra said, "Best Revenge is the Massive Success".
In the Internet Generation its, "For the people who said I'm gonna be nothing, I'm a millionaire now".
In the dictionaries, Revenge is actually an act of harmful thing a person does to someone for his/her vengeance. Its a desire of retribution, a punishment with a toxic mind. It sounds awful. Right?
But there's something called "Healthy Revenge" which we would have learned while we grew up.
For example, You might be ranked as 3rd in exams and you wanted to be 1st. So you put your focus towards the goal to rank no.1 and you get it. The more you fail, your revenge pulls you powerfully. When it goes to an extreme, then obviously you would have hurt the other person who beat you for no1.
Think about it. There are so many examples you can take in your life.
I will give you a situation. Tell me what do you think?
A guy gets rejected by a girl because he is fat and he hits the gym for the next 3 months to get into shape. Then he goes back to her and says “Look at me now”.
What do you see in this?. This guy took that rejection seriously and put himself into going to the gym every day. He is looking at the mirror or the picture of the girl who said no and increasing his anger which he puts into his body then becomes fit. The benefit is for him, coz the girl just said no or some words where he would have got hurt. But if you see the final outcome, he gets benefited. This is an act of healthy revenge.
Another Historic example is Steve Jobs. He got thrown out of the company which he founded. He created another one and made Apple buy it. This kind of revenge will give you pleasure and Joy more than anything.
Its actually being part of your life but you didn't think about it that this is how it's happening. It's in your family, In your College, In your workplace, It's everywhere.
It is bad advice because people say it poisons your mind and heart. But I would suggest you move that for Good and towards Goal.
Earlier in another blog, I suggested people be jealous to reach success. And now, I'm suggesting everyone take revenge to succeed.
Run behind your goals by doing these methods and if you achieve, Let me know in the comments below.
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@praveenkumar.a.94 - Agreed.! So, this definitely poisons the person's mind which he can go extreme. Like I mentioned in another example, If someone else beat person A, again and again in studies, He will definitely find an extremely toxic way to ruin that person's life. Basically it's tricky. We have to control this healthy revenge and push it towards the only goal. If we master it, then we will shine.
It's true that the entire segment is written from a single point of view because I wanted more suggestions on "How exactly people thinks about it".
Thanks for the comment. Appreciated.!
The story of the boy rejected by girl, is viewed in single point of view. If he would have died of heavy exercise or he lost his weight so that he will go back to her with lots of love again, then?